Risky Business: Changing the Sunday Morning Schedule

When you are passionate about reaching people, you’ll take risks.  This risk started with a letter — I remember it quite well. It arrived shortly after we held a special Reformation Worship Service. Instead of having four separate services that weekend about 15 months ago, we held just one service. The worship planning team simply wanted to bring everyone together with special music and a guest preacher. We wanted to celebrate our faith together and what better occasion than the anniversary of the Reformation?

It was a bit of a risk. Attendance was declining and the last thing I wanted to see was a further attendance drop. So, the team put a lot of energy and prayer into preparing a worship service that intentionally used elements from each style of worship we practice at Immanuel.

And attendance was good. Comments were positive, not only on the day of the service, but also in the days following. And that is when the letter arrived. Addressed to several leaders of Immanuel, the author suggested that we change our worship schedule. Instead of combining worship services for the occasional special event, why not make the change permanent? Having fewer services with more people together in the service has many advantages.

That single letter spurred on a lot of discussion. Many people agreed and wanted to make a change. Others did not want to make any change. What followed was near endless discussion. Should we drop a service? If so which one? And if we combined two services, what would the worship style be in that new service? Of course, some of us looked deeper into “why.” What caused the drop-in worship attendance that brought on this discussion?

We discovered that the attendance drop was not unique to Immanuel. Many U.S. churches were experiencing a similar drop. While it is difficult to pinpoint a direct cause, I suggest three possible explanations:

  1. Worshipers attend less often. People are worshiping, but they do not attend weekly.
  2. We are getting older. Many churches have a disproportionate number of members age 65 and older. Older members may not be attending as often due to health issues.
  3. There is a growing lack of interest in religion. Surveys show that fewer people report going to church “several times a year” and more people report going “once a year” and many report, “never.” In fact, the attendance category that has grown the most since 1990 is “never.”

So, after a year of countless discussions in meetings from the conference room to the parking lot and beyond, and no small amount of prayer seeking the Lord’s wisdom, we eventually reached a decision last fall to combine the 9:15 and 10:45 into one service at 10:30, allowing for a Discipleship Hour between the two services.

An interesting part of the decision was the fact that Pastor Warren and I (among others) felt strongly that this change needed one additional thing – an alternative service off-campus. We truly believed we could maximize the benefits of the new schedule by including a new group of people who we were currently missing. We knew this could be an incredible opportunity to reach out and move forward in Palatine.

The Gathering Place – Noon on Sundays at Christie’s Dairy Delights in Palatine

Little did either Pastor realize that within days of the elders’ decision we would have a site for what would eventually be called, “The Gathering Place.” Christie’s Dairy Delights (45 N Bothwell St.), welcomed our plan to invite people to simply dialogue with us about God and other matters of importance in life. The Gathering Place is not designed to replace one of the worship services at Immanuel. Rather it is designed for people without a church home, who may not have a relationship with Jesus and would be uncomfortable worshiping in a formal setting.

It’s been quite a journey that began with a letter asking us to combine a couple of our worship services. Looking back, I am grateful for all the discussion about our worship at Immanuel. Now we are moving forward, the change is in place and we are adapting. Most of us have changed our Sunday morning routine to accommodate the new worship times. We realize that God expects us to come together in worship and that is more important than habit, routine, or even convenience.

Oh come, let us worship and bow down;
let us kneel before the Lord, our Maker! —Psalm 95:6

I’ll see you in worship, Saturday at 5:00 p.m. or Sunday at 8:00 or 10:30 a.m. And please join me at 9:15 in Fellowship Hall for a discussion on the book of Matthew! And of course, remember to invite your friends without a church home to “The Gathering Place” held at noon on Sunday at Christie’s.

Want to hear more?  Last November, Immanuel’s pastors used the recording studio to explain the then-upcoming changes:

See you in church, school, Bible Study and at Christie’s!
Pastor Tom

 

Pure Religion at the Home of an Elderly Widow

There is a Scripture verse that I have loved for quite some time. It boils everything down and gives us a clear statement of what God expects from us because of our faith.

Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.   James 1:27 

Isn’t that an incredible passage!? Pure religion is looking after those in distress and keeping focused on the things of God.

That’s why I’m so thrilled that Deaconess Suzanne and Pastor Warren are heading up a project that they call “Extreme Makeover to Elderly Widow’s Home.” It’s a descriptive and accurate title for the project – there’s a widow that needs “extreme” help to stay in her home of more than 50 years. It’s going on this week and I’m told it will run through the rest of the month. I pray that we at Immanuel continue to seek out ways we can help people in our community, i.e. pure religion.

Pure religion is a life of practical, sensible compassion. And that’s a life that cares for the orphan and widow.  A life that is concerned for others in need. In fact this life imitates God because God is described as the “Father of the fatherless and protector of widows …” Psalm 68:5

When you are a genuine friend of the widow and orphan — that is, when you help others in need — then other things will happen in your life that strengthens your religious qualities. Your heart will always be ready to do good. Others will know they can rely on you and your word. Your life is an example for others. You are a person of integrity. You are practicing real religion.

Can you help with the “Extreme” project, visit a person in need, prepare a meal, volunteer at our school, and/or give some time and money to one of our many community efforts?  Please feel free to contact me at 224-801-8336 or PastorTom@ilcp.org if you have any questions about doing so, or just want to get started!   I’d love to hear from you and so would:

Just something that is always on my mind…

See you in Church…and maybe at a work site!
Pastor Tom

Teens: They’re That Important

Pastor Donald, Troy Horbach, Kristen Horbach, and Warren Glawe devoted a week to go on a mission trip with our teens. Teenagers are that important. I’m grateful that our congregation recognizes this, and I’m grateful that these adults set aside time to do this. Thank you Pastor Donald, Troy, Kristen, and Warren!

A year and a half ago, Immanuel called Pastor Donald to minister to youth and he’s been working (and praying) hard ever since. Teenagers are that important.  Again, I’m grateful for both our congregation and for Pastor Donald.

One of Pastor Donald’s latest initiatives targets parents.  On Thursday, September 7th Immanuel is hosting a showing of “Screenagers: Growing Up in the Digital Age,” a documentary about one of the biggest parenting issues of our time.  (More information can be found on the Immanuel website.) I urge all area parents to attend. Teenagers – they’re that important.

See you in church – and at the movies!
Pastor Tom

Summer’s Flying By

It’s summer. The days may be longer, but the season is speeding by. And as July concludes, Pastor Warren is wrapping up his summer sermon series: Becoming Stronger Together in Christ.  I hope you’ll be able to join us this weekend for Message #5 –  Living out our mission by Building the Community in Christ. Acts 28:17-30.  If you missed any of the earlier messages, you can catch up with them here.

Pastor Donald completed his summer preaching series in June, “Not a Fan.” If you missed any of his messages, you can catch up with them here.  The “not A fan” Bible study is available 24/7 via RightNow Media (Contact Pastor Warren if you’d like to sign up for RightNow Media.)

Summer preaching at Immanuel has a fresh look and new feel this year. I hope that you’ve enjoyed it so far and that it touched your life. This August, I’ve got my series, “God and Dr. Seuss.”  I pray you will join us!

See you in church this summer!
Pastor Tom

Tonight’s Summer Meal!

I just have to share an invitation that’s on Immanuel’s website:

The entire community is invited to a no-cost Community Meal on Thursday, July 27 from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at Immanuel Lutheran Church & School in Palatine. Immanuel will be serving up “good ole-summertime” favorites: food and fun. The menu? Hamburgers, hotdogs, pasta salad, green salad, baked beans, chips, lemonade and iced tea. Popular picnic games will be available for all to play.

Yes, we’re hosting another Community Meal tonight!  We hope to hold the event outdoors, but are prepared to hold it indoors if the weather makes that necessary. We’re ready either way. We’re serving our community and we’re growing. Pastor Warren is leading a great team of volunteers and they are serving these meals entirely through donations. People and companies have been generous with their time and resources, and I’m grateful.

Pastor Warren, me, Mary Sandner, and Pastor Donald at the January Community Meal.

Mary Sandner founded the Community Meal in Barrington. Mary’s vision of providing for friends, families, and others in Barrington has now expanded to Palatine. This is Immanuel’s fourth time hosting the Community Meal. Many other sites host the Community Meal too – the list is on the Community Meal website – and I hope you have the chance to visit one.

Immanuel’s intentional outreach to the community is growing and I’m thrilled to be a part of it. I can’t say it enough — the temptation is always to remain in one’s own comfort zone, in a setting that is very familiar and to simply let someone else help. However that isn’t what Christ had in mind when he said,

For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me . . . Matthew 25:35

I hope you can join us tonight, whatever the weather!  Details can be found at Immanuelpalatine.org/community-meal.

See you in church, and tonight at dinner!
Pastor Tom

Becoming Stronger Together in Christ

Pastor Warren’s on deck next!

During July, Pastor Warren leads us all in worship as we are “Becoming Stronger Together in Christ.” Pastor Warren will use scripture examples from the early Christians from the Book of Acts and the book The Discipleship Difference by Bob Logan.

Pastor Warren’s weekly line up of topics:

1. Being Transformed: What does that look like? – Acts 2:37-47

2. Getting started in the Community. – Acts 4:23-37, Acts 6: 1-7

3. The Mosaic of Discipleship and growing together in groups. – Acts 10:44-48

4. Obedience as the Crux of Discipleship. – Acts 14, 15, 21

5. Living out our mission by Building the Community in Christ. Acts 28:17-30

This past weekend, Pastor Donald wrapped up his summer preaching series, “Not a Fan.” If you missed any of his messages, you can catch up with them here.  The “not A fan” Bible study is available 24/7 via RightNow Media (Contact Pastor Warren if you’d like to sign up for RightNow Media.)

Summer preaching at Immanuel has a fresh look and new feel this year. I hope that you’ve enjoyed it so far and that it touched your life.  We are definitely going to have a meaningful summer here at Immanuel. I pray you will join us!

See you in church this summer!
Pastor Tom

How Did She Pull it Off? Stronger Together!

Principals are busy people – especially at the end of a school year. And yet, Principal Delaine Schiestel pulled together a very successful work day on June 3. Well, Delaine and 42 others did! Delaine was the organizer, but so many other people fueled the event. Volunteers from Prince of Peace worked with Immanuel volunteers, prepping middle school lockers for painting. People worked inside and people worked outside – cleaning, raking, staining, and so much more. She even had me working on the landscaping in the courtyard. It was truly a community effort. Stronger Together.

So, Immanuel, let’s continue to work as a team! That includes youth, elderly, members, non-members, new Christians and old Lutherans, all! For building a community in Christ requires everyone to use whatever God has given them. It requires changing old practices and habits. It is the old comfortable way of doing things that has led to the necessity to build up the community in Christ. Think about it!

There are so many opportunities for us to give back! There will be two more work days this summer – Saturday, July 8 and Saturday, August 5. Plus, we’re again hosting the Community Meal on July 27th. And I invite you to visit Immanuel’s website to read about more ways to serve. If you don’t live in the Palatine area, I urge you to get involved in your local community!

For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me . . . Matthew 25:35

See you in church!
Pastor Tom

 

Immanuel Member Chooses to be a Pastor – After He Retires!

Bill Harder, at a Stronger Together Summit. I am truly excited because Bill has a passion to reach out to those without a relationship with Jesus Christ. He wants to begin new work in our community’s nursing homes and other care facilities where people may feel neglected and need God’s Word.

What is it that drives someone to become a pastor? Could it be the thrill of speaking before hundreds of people each week? Perhaps it the desire to be in long nightly or weekend meetings, or perhaps you like to work on holidays and weekends and truly prefer Mondays off. Perhaps you think wearing a robe in public is fashionable, or riding “shotgun” in a hearse as it winds its way through traffic will impress your neighbors.

Or perhaps you simply love God and feel called to serve him and your neighbor.

Bill Harder, a member of Immanuel, the husband of Marilyn, a Bible Study leader, and former elder will retire at the end of the summer. If his application is accepted, he will begin training for the pastoral ministry. Rather than moving to the seminary in St. Louis, Bill intends to enter the Specific Ministry Pastor (SMP) program. This program allows Bill to stay in his Palatine home while he completes 16 courses over a four-year period including several on campus seminars.

If Bill’s plans develop as he expects, he will become a vicar (intern) at Immanuel. I’ll be his primary supervisor, meeting weekly with Bill to review his studies, assign him to various duties at Immanuel and support his mentoring. With training and supervision, he will be able to visit sick and homebound, teach added Bible classes, aid in worship, and in time perform all the tasks of a pastor.

I am truly excited because Bill has a passion to reach out to those who do not have a relationship with Jesus Christ. He wants to begin new work in our community’s nursing homes and other care facilities where people may feel neglected and need God’s Word. He wants to be part of our Stronger Together campaign as we bring Christ to the community. He especially wants to begin new opportunities for men to know Christ. We have pews in the church, and desks in the school, to fill. I think Bill is being directed by God to help fill them.

After two years of successful course work and completing his vicarage, Bill will then become eligible to serve as a pastor at Immanuel. However, he will have an added two years of class work and supervision at Immanuel before he is eligible for ordination. The SMP program only allows the graduate to serve at the congregation where they have begun their course work and vicarage. He will be specifically trained for Immanuel. In time, the congregation of Immanuel will be asked to extend Bill a call as pastor.

What is Immanuel’s role? We will need to pray for Bill and Marilyn as they begin this new chapter of life. We will be walking alongside them each step of the way and watch Bill grow and mature as a pastor.

I step back for a moment and consider the sacrifice Bill and Marilyn are making. Instead of enjoying retirement in Florida or relaxing in Palatine, Bill is beginning a rigorous course of expensive studies and a new demanding career as he learns to be a pastor. There are no guarantees that Immanuel will call him when he is eligible.  However, I can guarantee that he will have abundant opportunities to share Christ.

 And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ.  Ephesians 4:11-12

See you in church,
Pastor Tom

Tonight’s Meal

community-meal-teamHosting our first Community Meal last fall was so exciting! We’re hosting another one tonight and I’m just as excited, for some of the same reasons and for some new ones. We’re serving our community and we’re growing.  Pastor Warren and a very able team of volunteers built up a “routine” that works and they have it down, but are continuing to find new ways to make the meal special. They work so well together, yet new volunteers are welcomed and encouraged.  And this time we’re even offering a vegetarian option.  If you know Immanuel volunteer Tim Schmitt, a May 2015 Daily Herald Cook of the Week, you know that he loves to do food events. Tim created a menu that’s sure to impress. More on that here.

Pastor Warren, me, Mary Sandner, and Pastor Donald at the January Community Meal.

The Community Meal was founded in Barrington by Mary Sandner. Mary’s vision of providing for friends, families, and others in Barrington has now expanded to Palatine. Pastor Donald worked with Mary years ago and they reconnected last summer.  It’s great that this is Immanuel’s third time hosting the Community Meal and that many of you are getting the chance to meet, and volunteer with, Mary.  Many other sites host the Community Meal too – the list is on the Community Meal website – and I encourage you to visit one.

Immanuel’s intentional outreach to the community will continue to grow. As I often point out, the temptation is always to remain in one’s own comfort zone, in a setting that is very familiar and to simply let someone else help. However that isn’t what Christ had in mind when he said,

For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me . . . Matthew 25:35

I hope you can join us tonight!  Simply for dinner or as a volunteer – either way is totally fine with me.  Details and sign up info can be found at Immanuelpalatine.org/community-meal.

See you in church, and tonight at dinner!
Pastor Tom

I Wrote A Letter…

I really don’t use snail mail all that much anymore. But here’s proof that I did this time. It’s that important…

Today I’m at the cancer clinic. Every four weeks I come here to receive Intravenous Immunoglobulin Therapy (IVIg).  I am not expecting anything out of the ordinary, though I’ve been surprised before – and often.  But I am expecting something totally out of the ordinary with Stronger Together.

A couple of weeks ago I wrote a letter to members of Immanuel’s elected boards and to people who volunteered to lead our Stronger Together efforts.  I’d like to share that with you now. If you are not associated with Immanuel Lutheran Church, I think you’ll still get the message loud and clear and I pray you’ll find it useful.  If you do have ties to Immanuel, I’d like to extend an invitation for you to get involved. And I like to hear what you ALL think. So here it is…

Friends –

Mellow Lutheran Church is located near a series of stunning lakes and beautiful views. It’s my preferred vacation location and if retirement is in my future, maybe it will include a log cabin.

They’ve had one service on Sunday for as long as anyone can remember. Everyone not only has their favorite pews, they even have their “own” parking spaces. Pews and parking spaces are handed down through the family.  Those parking spaces are not your typical yellow striped spot on the blacktop. Rather, they are special places in the field across from the church able to accommodate a trailer for a boat or snowmobile.

Pastors tend to stay a long time at Mellow Lutheran Church In fact, the last three only left when they were carried out in a hardwood coffin.  When they need a new replacement pastor, men apply for the position. Everyone knows it is the best church to serve; there is ample fishing, hunting and hiking. Often the best place to visit with a member in the winter is in their ice house.

Mellow Lutheran Church does not have any issues. There has not been a sharp word of disagreement at a congregation meeting since there was that unfortunate minority movement that wanted to change the date for the annual Spaghetti Dinner. The date did not change and that family went to the Methodist church.

Mellow Lutheran Church also hasn’t added a new family since the church was remodeled after WWII.  They do not set an annual budget because they don’t want to offend anyone with the possibility of a deficit.  The organist keeps a close record of the hymns so they sing all the good ones regularly.  And every seven years, the men gather on a Saturday after the Super Bowl and before fishing season opens to paint all the interior walls. Flat white has been the color of choice even though there was that pastor years ago who suggested semi-gloss.

Well, Immanuel is a little different than Mellow Lutheran Church. We set budgets and run deficits. Some think we need to cut back on services and others disagree. We get confused sometimes about which color and texture paint to use, as well as which repair to the building comes first. We park wherever we want (except in my spot). Pastors and other workers have come and gone too frequently for some, yet others think they stay too long.

Immanuel has a deep passion to grow. We want all the desks filled in our school so that more children will learn about Jesus.  We want all the pews filled in the church (even if new people take “our” seat) so more people will hear the lifesaving message of Jesus Christ. We want our building to reflect the honor and respect due our Heavenly Father.  We want a strong spiritual and physical presence in our community. And we expect our pastors and teachers and everyone on staff to be dedicated servants at the top of their calling.

We know we are “Stronger Together.” So, at 2:00 p.m. on Saturday April 29 we will come together once again to pray and talk about why we do what we do at Immanuel. It sounds simple, but there are many voices and opinions that need to be heard. If you’d like to attend, please R.S.V.P. to Diana Broj. Please join me as together we “Grow the Community in Christ.”

See you in church, and in the community,
Pastor Tom